7 April 2012

Why your girlfriend is avoiding you

Hi, is your girlfriend is ignoring you ? and you are confused why is she behaving like this than don't worry here i am going to tell you some of your mistakes that you are making unknowingly.


1) she felt suffocated you think you're always right and want to have your way most of the times. But you pushed your luck in the relationship when this habit encroached on her personal space. like you, she enjoys attention from opposite sex, having a girls' night out every once in a while on a weekend and doing things that make her feel good about herself such as dancing , singing , or playing the guitar. if you often picked up a fight with her for hanging out with her male colleagues, or told her not to wear certain outfits that you deemed as reveling, then you dug your own grave. you restricted her freedom .
2) you were clingy you didn't have a life of your own. you cut off your close friends so that you could spend all your time with her.you called her at work every now and then to check if she is fine. your e-mails and texts are over the top and mushy . you didn't complain, you didn't argue and you didn't take the initiative when it came to planning an outing . instead of being an interesting and challenging guy, you were a baggage . a little mystery and self-control is always good if you want to hold on to your girl.
3) you wanted a counsellor evry women wants to be loved and nurtured. However , you were looking for a confidence and a shoulder to cry on. you poured your heart out about all your life problems , hoping that she would have all the answers. you made her feel like she is your mother. and this changed her perception for you from a man to an immature child, who constantly needed someone to wipe his tears and hold his hand, which she obviously had not signed up for.
4) you have hygiene issues you eat your mouth open, your breath is less than minty fresh and you burp loudly in public. she never told you that but probably dropped a lot of of hints which you failed to pick up. if you took your girl for granted and thought it was okay to ignore personal hygiene , you should really be surprised by your relationship's premature demise, should you ? your so-called casual habits were the reason for her embarrassment lots of time. she just chose not to put with your smelly armpits, flaky dandruff or unclean nether regions every time.
5) you were bad in bed you came early, were selfish and never made an attempt to satisfy her. you thought that she was okay with that but but she probably never told you so just to spare your ego. brush up your skills and learn to give equally in bed.
6) you have no confidence even without good looks, a confident man can win over some of the hottest girls. if you are low on self-esteem because you have not been with many women so far inn your dating career, are not earning enough or too shy to socialise with her friends, your omen will sense it instantly. it's a big turn off to be with a man who is not sure of himself. she is likely to think, how will you take care of her when you are unable to take care of yourself.
7) she was not that into you while the sex was great, you could never establish an emotional connect with her. you may not have had anything in common in terms of music,movies or food.whether she never made an effort to understand you or you realised it later, you need to find someone who is into to you. the foundation for a strong relationship is based on mutual respect and shared experience. may be next time round, you might just get lucky.

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